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PTSD Treatment and Trauma Therapy

What is PTSD?

PTSD, or Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, is a response your brain and body have in response to an event or events in which you felt or witnessed a physical or emotional threat to safety or well-being. The resulting symptoms included intense unwanted feelings, thoughts, and/or bodily sensations. You may have flashbacks, avoidance of the place where the event happened, or feel unable to “let go” of these very unpleasant feelings, feelings of impending doom, or a sense that you are not safe. An incident might be: Being bullied by classmates or reprimanded by a teacher (women with ADHD often have these experiences) or witnessing bullying, a car accident, a sexual assault, a sudden unexpected death of a loved one.

How will I treat this?

With TIR (Traumatic Incident Reduction). This is an evidence-based treatment for the unwanted “sludge” that you feel after a traumatic event, or a series of them.

How is this different from regular talk therapy?

In most talk therapies, you usually talk about what is keeping you feeling stuck. You talk about your thoughts and feelings about a stressful event or situation. The therapist may reflect on what you said and give you their interpretation of how you are feeling or reacting, and they may give strategies for calming yourself. This can be helpful in giving you support or ways to cope with your feelings, thoughts and sensations about the trauma, like putting a band-aid on a wound. However, it is not as effective at treating the root cause of your PTSD, which is the charge of it on your brain and nervous system.

Let’s imagine that you were in a car crash. Since then, your body has a hard time resting. You startle with sudden noise. Images, sounds, even smells from the accident keep running through your head. You may have trouble sleeping. You are afraid of getting into a car again, and you may be avoiding cars.

It may help to tell a therapist about these symptoms, because you don’t feel so alone. They may tell you this sounds like a trauma response, and they may empathize that this is hard to cope with. They may give you some strategies for self-calm and positive self-talk. You might spend weeks or months talking about your symptoms and how they are affecting your life. You may have found ways to deal with the symptoms, and the symptoms might have lessened a little bit, but they are still there.

With TIR you don’t talk “about” what happened. You will re-experience the incident with me in a safe, structured, and uninterrupted way, from start to finish. We repeat the process, each time letting more charge come off, until you feel mostly free of the charge, which we call an “End Point”. A TIR session is not a band-aid. It’s more like a match that “burns off” the kerosene, or charge, of the incident. It’s targeted, intense, and provides faster relief of your symptoms.

How long is a typical TIR session?

The length of time on this varies, but most TIR sessions can be done in 90 minutes. There is no set end-time to a TIR session. When you are stabilized and have reached an Endpoint, you are done with the session. This is also why we plan the session in advance. You want to do this when you have a good window of time, and some time after the session to allow for rest and recharge.

How many sessions will I need?

This depends upon the nature and intensity of the trauma. It may be as little as six sessions, especially if the traumatic incident was a short, discrete one. A few sessions are spent on getting more information and me learning of your concerns or anything else you are interested in working on with me, before we do the actual TIR session or sessions.

If the traumatic event is more long-term, such as a harrowing workplace or life situation, we might work longer to help reduce the charge or distress around them. For example, if you were bullied in your workplace, you might have trauma from the bullying incidents, but if you also find that you have lingering attitudes or wrong messages around them, we may need to work through those to. The unwanted feelings and beliefs may be related to earlier incidents. We will work to get relief from that charge, too.

In short, there is no “set in stone” number of sessions. When you feel you are in a place where you can function more fully in your life, and your PTSD symptoms are lessened (or gone), we are done.

Who do I work with in Trauma Therapy?

First Responders

Whether you are a Firefighter, Law Enforcement Officer, Paramedic, or Emergency Response Technician, or other person responding to an Emergency, this can take a toll on you. Are you finding that a particular day or emergency left you with recurring images of that day, that you want to stop seeing this in your head, but they keep coming? Maybe you are always so “amped up” and stressed out that it’s hard to eat or sleep. Or, you mostly about your day, but something you saw, heard, or even smelled, triggered you into reacting way more than the situation called for. It may be hard to focus on your friends, family, or daily tasks. You have a hard time concentrating. You may have trouble with nightmares or falling asleep. You don’t want to keep living with these images or sensations, but you don’t know how to get rid of them. On top of that, you may be thinking bad things about yourself, like “I should get over this. It didn’t even happen to me.”

Maybe you even tried talk therapy. You appreciated the therapist’s care and time. They may have helped you cope with your symptoms, but they were still there.

I can help you. Why? Because you don’t need another person telling you “that must have felt terrible”. That’s obvious. Empathy is great, but what you need is relief. You need a way to rewire your brain, so the images, feelings, sensations that are so distressing get reduced. We work through the PTSD together so that you get this relief.

Survivors of Gun Incidents and Gunshots

Did you or someone you love experience an incident with a gun? Whether it was an accident or intentional, the result is something you can’t shake. The images are still in your head, and you might even be afraid to go back to the place this happened. If it was your (or your family member’s) home, your place of work, or your school, this is especially hard. You may have trouble sleeping, or feeling like you are always still under threat, and it’s a hard feeling to shake. You may have lost a person and you are still grieving. Are you feeling anger at someone or something, but it’s so hard to talk to someone about it? The heavy feelings leave you feeling like you like moving through “sludge” as you go about your day. You don’t want to keep feeling like this, but don’t know how to feel different after what happened. You will benefit from PTSD treatment.

Survivors of Car Accidents

A car accident can leave you shaken even if nobody was seriously injured. Are you having trouble getting back in your car? Do images of the accident keep running through your head? Are you stressed out at the idea of driving again? Maybe you even feel your body tense up or freeze since this happened.

We will work together to relieve these symptoms of PTSD, whatever they may be in your case. We use a targeted treatment that is shown to effective reduce the symptoms you feel in your body and brain, so you can get relief.

Survivors of Assault

Being assaulted can leave you in shock. You may feel like the world as you know it cannot be trusted; it isn’t safe. Maybe you even think, “what did I do to deserve this”? You didn’t deserve this. You may have unanswered questions.

Those who lost a loved one.

  • Woman gazing out a window.

    Why can't I just let this go? Maybe I'm not strong.

    While some people may be more susceptible to PTSD, it does not have to do with how “strong” they are personally. It is a deep-brain and body response to distress. “Letting it go” is not an effective or realistic strategy.

  • Person thinking.

    What happened wasn't that bad. Is it really trauma?

    Trauma isn’t about “what happened” so much as it is about how you experienced (or continue to) experience events. The goal isn’t to judge whether something was “bad”, but to change how it is affecting you.. When the charge around the incident is reduced, that you can be calmer and more present in your life.

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    OK. How do I start?

    Connect with me.

    Let me know that you want to do TIR. We will assess your issue and go ahead with this. Even if you started seeing me for another issue, such as feeling overwhelmed by life’s demands, you may find TIR sessions helpful to you at some point, too.